Alive & fine...
Hoping to post soon.

Just trying to get through some things.

JAG: Got your package and I LOVE LOVE LOVE it!
You rock! Love my graffiti mini, it is my favorite of all things!

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Here one minute and gone the next.

That is how my blog posting seems to have been through late February and March.
I'm not going to lie.
It hasn't been the best.

But it is better.

And I am hoping to be a posting fool come April 1st. And that's not an April fool's joke.

But for now it is supremely late and I am majorly tired.
So hang in there with me.

I've got good things planned.

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Facet Injections and Hooper Dooper

I really want to go into more detail about the last month and the THREE (Yeah!) Surgical procedures I have had but the last 2 and a half weeks have been hard. The second procedure was painful because I didn't respond well to the anesthesia used and felt a majority of the procedure. Yes, it was hell.

I wasn't supposed to even have a 3rd procedure but he decided the second one was a failure so I went in today for a round of facet injects in the joints of my spine.
And this is what my back looks like currently:

The blue you see is surgical ink and bruising from this and past procedures.
I had 6 spinal facet injections today.
And I am in misery.
It's expected for a few days.
Let's hope that is it. :(

On a brighter note...
This is what the kids and I got for Valentine's Day from Big Daddy.

His name is Hooper.
He is a 10 week old Black Lab.
And we are smitten...

Hopefully I can do a proper update soon when I recover a bit more.

I also wanted to send a HUGE thanks to all my new visitors!
Wow!
Truly, you all have touched my heart by stopping by and commenting.
I am honored.

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In like a lion...

Hello March.
Where did you come from?

February has been a crazy month for me.
It has been full of hope and disappointment, anger and realization, pain and mental healing.

My mind has been on overdrive.
Contemplating what I want out of my life and what makes me happiest. What I need to do to make some major changes (health wise) and can I make them sustainable...

I'll be back around here soon.
I have some catching up to do, eh!

Peace ♥

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Happy Valentines Day to the Best Man I Know...

My Dearest Dennis,

Over the last few years I have tried a million times to tell you how I feel about you but I have never had the strength nor the courage. It seems silly I know. After all we have been together since we were 17 years old. We married at 20 and had our baby girl at 21, and our miracle baby boy at 33. Here we are about to turn 39 and we have been together for nearly half of our lives. And I can't talk to you...

It's not what you think, sweet man.
I am not going to tell you anything bad.
The kids are OK, I am OK. Everything is fine.

I know the last 5 years have been difficult.
This battle I am fighting with my health seems to be unending.
I know you will not agree.
You would never say I have made life hard for us.
You are far too kind and selfless.
That's why it has been hard for me to tell you how grateful I am to you.

Although we have never lived a life of luxuries or frivolities, I AM happy.
I do not need fancy clothes, cars, or homes to know I am loved.
I have you.

Although we have struggled at times to pay the bills, buy food, and keep a roof over our heads, I never wanted for anything.
I KNOW I am safe and will never go hungry.
I have you.

Although my health has steadily declined since Cameron was born 5 years ago, my life has had meaning and purpose.
I have a GREAT life.
Because I have you.

You and I have had a thousand conversations about why we always seem to have to fight harder than some couples do for the simple things in life. But I have come to realize that even though we have never lived an easy life, we have lived a life filled with true, honest, giving love. We have watched marriages fail all around us. The truth is the bones of our love story do not rest in the material things. They reside in the fact that we always knew the most valuable thing we have is each other.

As I have struggled to keep up my end of our relationship as my health has gotten and continues to get worse, you have not only become the sole income for our family but on many days, the dishwasher, cook, and housekeeper. I have cried myself to sleep many nights at the guilt of putting all of this additional weight upon your shoulders. I have fought self-hatred.

And yet every time I try to tell you, you shrug me off. Tell me not to worry or that I am being silly. But I know how hard it is on you. And yet you have never wavered. You have never let me feel bad. You have only picked up my heart and made me fight a little longer.

I do not know what I would ever do without you.
You give me strength.
You love me until my heart hurts.
You work harder than any man I know.
You make the kids and I your only priority.
You are honest, caring, and devoted.

I love you.
Deeply and from the core of my soul.
You have made me a better person.
You have given me the two greatest gifts of my life, our babies.
I will proudly grow as old as I can with you.
But when the day comes for us to part ways on this Earth I want you to know two things.

I have had a WONDERFUL life and I have NO regrets.
And I will be waiting for you in Heaven.

All of my love always,
Tam

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So far...

So good.

I am OK, really.
Just taking it easy.

I will post a real update tomorrow sometime.
I promise.
But tonight...I rest.

Happy l♥ve month.

Get to smooching.

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Closing in on GO.

Today is the day.
Surgery is scheduled for 10:50 a.m.
I have to be there by 9:45, glad they called to let me know.
I would have been 5 minutes late and that puts them in a tizzy.

So in exactly 7 hours and 45 minutes I will be under the knife.
Yet again.

And I am just about as sick to my stomach thinking about it as possible.

Hopefully I can come home tomorrow.
If I do and I can sit without a bunch of pain, I will post.

But if not.
I. WILL. See. You. All. Soon.

Send good thoughts my way.

♥ You all are good friends.
Tam

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